tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-775779943618475111.post5793275040429831655..comments2023-10-29T09:46:47.163+01:00Comments on AnetteOlzon´s blog: Right or wrong?Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger36125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-775779943618475111.post-84470684827132824912013-06-28T02:18:09.329+02:002013-06-28T02:18:09.329+02:00I would say you need to battle. My daughter was d...I would say you need to battle. My daughter was done an injustice earlier this year. She went through a horrific incident while in the care of her father. I fought for her safety and protection, hoping and praying the law would be in her favor. She was served an injustice when the judge said that she had to go back to visiting her father. I still continue to fight for her justice since I am her voice. Whatever your injustice may be, even if you don't get justice, you can feel good about battling for it. Julia Hickhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04786678219912646305noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-775779943618475111.post-27033756927875900562013-06-20T18:27:11.571+02:002013-06-20T18:27:11.571+02:00Annette, I don't know what your injustice pert...Annette, I don't know what your injustice pertains to, but I read an inspirational quote the other day: "Don't attend every argument you're invited to", meaning that if somebody is very angry and hateful and wants to hurt you, just ignore this person. It is not your anger and darkness to share. :)<br />Hope that helps.<br />xxxFionahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16467530333888737110noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-775779943618475111.post-40697322619771571332013-06-20T03:23:53.838+02:002013-06-20T03:23:53.838+02:00If there is so much at stake, I say go for whateve...If there is so much at stake, I say go for whatever it is! If it IS a public thing, I'm pretty sure you'd agree, your name has been drug through the mud quite enough for you to know how that goes. I don't think that's anything new for you or anyone who supports you. You need to do whatever it is that you need to do. <br /><br />If this isn't public and it's just something you can't put down - my brother has the same problems sometimes. Sometimes I tell him that he needs to move on from things because he gets stuck trying to figure them out, to the point that it causes him problems, or sucks up all of his time and positive energy.<br /><br />Whatever you decide to do, you will always have supporters!<br />Go pippi go! :)<br />-Desi from Missourinodoubtaholichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06503720903290476837noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-775779943618475111.post-81976325799891761332013-06-19T18:32:58.540+02:002013-06-19T18:32:58.540+02:00I don't know what this is about, but if it *is...I don't know what this is about, but if it *is* about NW, and they've truly done something unfair, like holding back royalties, screw the "fan's feelings." Please. That's just selfish when "fans" complain it would start "fights." You're one kick-ass momma, a hell of a singer, and a genuinely sweet lady, and I KNOW you wouldn't fight for something unless it was truly the right thing. Don't let people walk all over you!<br /><br />And if it's totally unrelated to NW, cool. I'm not a war-monger. I just want to see you do what's right. Whoever's doing this, go get 'em!ZozoEmhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05277676640147643743noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-775779943618475111.post-12765058183437270932013-06-19T16:54:39.603+02:002013-06-19T16:54:39.603+02:00Since I'm not quite sure which injustice you s...Since I'm not quite sure which injustice you speak of, I can't give solid advice. Only that, you should REALLY think through anything before you do it. Especially if it's something that would become public. Sometimes, when public "justice" is sought, it causes a huge backfire to the one seeking the justice (which can be fair or unfair, depending on why, who, etc,.) and everyone will certainly put their own opinions out there. <br /><br />If it is something that after given proper time to meditate on, can be forgiven and let slide for both parties to move-on, then that is always the better route. <br /><br />I have found that anything said or done out of anger, only causes me problems. But if I wait to handle it when I'm calmer, I have time to think about what to say, and what not to say, and usually the other person is more understanding. <br /><br />I hope you make the right decision on this. Best of luck! lehPhotographyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01466040561185189919noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-775779943618475111.post-89368945960865713002013-06-19T13:21:37.989+02:002013-06-19T13:21:37.989+02:00Hello Anette, can import the reason of your decisi...Hello Anette, can import the reason of your decision, if you are in your rights, then refuse and resists !<br />Good luck Anette and is strong, your fans are with you.<br /><br /> EMMANUEL (FRANCE)MAN70https://www.blogger.com/profile/02117352175772337203noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-775779943618475111.post-77133100598416539532013-06-19T03:53:52.416+02:002013-06-19T03:53:52.416+02:00I say FIGHT!
Like we're doing here in Brazil!...I say FIGHT!<br /><br />Like we're doing here in Brazil! ;D<br /><br /><br />All the best for you, Nettan ^^Thiago Cardosohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01092030248313034972noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-775779943618475111.post-86476714519560160802013-06-19T01:22:17.358+02:002013-06-19T01:22:17.358+02:00Battle. Being silent to injustice is the same of s...Battle. Being silent to injustice is the same of supporting it, doesn't matter the situation. If you have proof, then you are backed up and have nothing to loose if you fight.<br /><br />You are a strong woman, loved by your friends and family and also by your fans and readers. <br /><br />Take care and have a great week.Paulohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18415602344725151410noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-775779943618475111.post-10029509909676576272013-06-18T22:19:14.595+02:002013-06-18T22:19:14.595+02:00Hi Anette!
I agree with Pikkumyy 1990. If it is ...Hi Anette! <br /><br />I agree with Pikkumyy 1990. If it is about NW, please don´t fight.. It isn´t good for you or them or to us fans!<br /><br />I´m very excited to hear your new songs! Do you have a record deal yet?<br /><br />Have a happy summer!<br /><br />MariMarihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02013595223939827454noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-775779943618475111.post-74431024381877408572013-06-18T22:14:28.761+02:002013-06-18T22:14:28.761+02:00Hi Anette! So sorry to hear you having heavy thoug...Hi Anette! So sorry to hear you having heavy thoughts :(. Its definitely a great idea to write lyrics while having them, as I've written some of my best material having heavy thoughts. Its a healthy way of letting them out instead of letting them brew in your mind :). Exercise to is great, those thoughts give more fuel to push harder during a workout. What I do is put my earphones in, jump on my bicycle, ride to hillside dams, pull out my pad and pen and write lyrics :). I hope you manage to reach an answer :).<br /><br />Take care <br />bren :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05152741776728779050noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-775779943618475111.post-49409344774458037112013-06-18T22:11:45.836+02:002013-06-18T22:11:45.836+02:00Many and also wise thoughts here. I don't know...Many and also wise thoughts here. I don't know.... If the issue really disturbes you , you have to do something about it . <br />We have only one life here, and we want to make it the best we can . Is this an issue you will regret later in life not to have battled? <br />The battle won't make you a lesser person . You are precious, you are proud of yourself, you are a mother, and you are a beautiful person. Fight if you have to. Think of a way to do it wisely. It is your life Anette ! Good luck with your decision, and we will be on your side :) <br />Karinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16332530982771252872noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-775779943618475111.post-28166236323381242232013-06-18T22:01:48.573+02:002013-06-18T22:01:48.573+02:00Will battling help one leave things behind? From m...Will battling help one leave things behind? From my experiences, it highly depends on the battle. <br /><br />If it's a battle to get revenge for something or a relief for hurt feelings, it will come around again and again. No one will ever be satisfacted, not even if the justice is done. The hurt pride and/or feelings won't be mended, quite the opposite; the scars will rip open for no avail. <br />Things tend to get dirty and innocent bystanders on both sides will get involved and hurt in the process. <br /><br />If it's a matter of getting justice on universal level, as in "everyone should have the right to", one can't really make a change alone and can easily be targeted by the "enemy". It is a bitter road to fight alone so one should get others with similar experiences for back up. :) <br />Even if the justice won't be done, letting one's anger out loud and having a supporting group might relief the anxiety. <br />The downside is, piling up the anger with others won't let you leave anything behind. As with the revenge, it can turn to a center point of one's life. <br /><br />Then there's battles with institutes. These have the highest success rate and it's also safe. They have to have pleas and such to their actions and decisions, and those have to be written down. So a private person has one huge supporter on their side, the legal system.<br /> Also it's a private matter, so no harm done to other aspects in one's life.<br /> The people on the "enemy side" are humans too, they do errors and bad decisions in their work. There are very few of those people who actually want to make others miserable, so for me it's nice to know that people with normal social behavior can go on with their personal life once they shut the door at 5 PM. <br />If that's not the way one wants to handle things, we go back to section 1: personal revenge. And that leads to nowhere.<br />Then again, there can be assholes within institutes or companies. Full steam ahead, rip them all down. :D <br /><br />What ever your issue and decision regarding it is, I wish you strength and luck. :) dorakhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14646875825599114457noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-775779943618475111.post-39337913622714475112013-06-18T20:29:05.021+02:002013-06-18T20:29:05.021+02:00I hope Nightwish isn't trying to hold back roy...I hope Nightwish isn't trying to hold back royalties from you. That would be a battle you should fight in my opinion. But whatever your injustice is, I know you will do what is best. You know we all here for you and support you in your battle. We love you Anette remember that.<br /><br />Love,<br />LindaLindaShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03294101156482868457noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-775779943618475111.post-54055070981239173632013-06-18T20:11:30.051+02:002013-06-18T20:11:30.051+02:00Hmm... going off what you say when you comment you...Hmm... going off what you say when you comment you can't put it behind you as there is too much at stake for you I might say battle. <br /><br />Though it's tricky to offer advice when I don't know the situation.<br /><br />What I would say though is that if you do choose to battle then be careful Anette.<br /><br />Have a nice evening! :-) Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-775779943618475111.post-32505608637176155432013-06-18T19:26:05.810+02:002013-06-18T19:26:05.810+02:00Somethimes taking up a battle causes more stress t...Somethimes taking up a battle causes more stress than it actually benefits. On the other hand if you feel unjustifed and cannot even sleep due to the situation, it is an issue which will not just fade away and must be dealth with. Isn't there a solution that is somewhere in between? Could you try mediation maybe? <br />I wish you strength and am sending you tons of positive energy to support you on your way to resolve the issue.<br />Beatrixhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18240377432683907334noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-775779943618475111.post-38819782247227884732013-06-18T18:47:44.533+02:002013-06-18T18:47:44.533+02:00If you can fight without hurting yourself in the l...If you can fight without hurting yourself in the long run, it may be worth it. Next to the injustice, not doing anything when you possibly could can hurt just as much. <br /><br />Do what feels right to you, you deserve better! Misihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02896443723827300681noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-775779943618475111.post-48373165883678567632013-06-18T18:34:19.517+02:002013-06-18T18:34:19.517+02:00Hi Anette!
After reading this particular blog pos...Hi Anette!<br /><br />After reading this particular blog post, I have a feeling that you are going to talk about your departure with Nightwish again. If I’m right about this, I would really like to ask you not to do it please. It’s almost 10 months now since the split, I can see that both you and the band are happy at the moment – you with Mio on board and creating new songs, and the band with doing the festival shows −, and talking about the departure would just cause some war in the fanbase again, which is really not needed. I hope my gut feeling is wrong, and you are talking about another thing in this post.<br /><br />Regards,<br /><br />-D<br />Pikkumyy1990https://www.blogger.com/profile/05419056245459379115noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-775779943618475111.post-9462426786703218622013-06-18T18:34:17.846+02:002013-06-18T18:34:17.846+02:00Hello Anette,
The world is full of injustice and ...Hello Anette,<br /><br />The world is full of injustice and hard decisions. It was only later, sometimes you think different about his decisions. It can be seen also that one would have to go another way.<br /><br />I am also sometimes gone the wrong way and have not regretted it. But because you learn this and learned you never forget. That is life.<br />In recent weeks I was haunted by the chef, which I wanted to do an apprenticeship as a chef, followed.<br />He was an egoist and I was more than just being bullied. I should pick up once the tables for the patio from the ground and the shy, the journeyman would help me. After an hour he came and yelled at me why I need you so long, but he had not told the fellow that he should help me. But sent him home. Everyone else would do it in a Half Hour. Now I knew what I had told him on the head. But then I was just tired and my Ahstma had made bad noticeable. And these tables were so heavy and the stairs was not very wide.<br />Since it was a real right decision to cancel the training and to free me from hell.<br />At that time I pulled the ripcord and I do not regret it.<br />A little story from me to my decision. Meanwhile, I forgive the guy. It is like he is and what he did to me to fall back on him one day.<br /><br />And I think your decision about Nightwish brave. This courage you will also in this decision. As I'm sure;).<br /><br />All the best Nalon.<br /><br /><br />Nalonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06515928236301366025noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-775779943618475111.post-71649009675385937762013-06-18T18:14:54.693+02:002013-06-18T18:14:54.693+02:00Hey Dearest,
I don't know what happened to you...Hey Dearest,<br />I don't know what happened to you but as long as your fight harms nobody in any way, it is alright. :)<br />I send strength to you!<br />Love and hugs,<br />Eva eva fliesawayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08864320680810106726noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-775779943618475111.post-34983593408154733642013-06-18T17:36:53.951+02:002013-06-18T17:36:53.951+02:00One thing I learned in life is to "choose you...One thing I learned in life is to "choose your battles." Sometimes things are simply not worth fighting for. Is a fight really worth pursuit if it damages a relationship? What if it hurts you or your career? Sometimes people get a bad reputation for "stirring the pot," even if they are right, they can be labelled as high maintenance. I would weigh all possible outcomes and repercussions, then decide. Hope for the best in any situation, but always prepare for the worst. Sometimes holding your head high and turning the other cheek is the best revenge you could give: Bullies hate when they have no effect on their victims. Katy Mariehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03847094458328967715noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-775779943618475111.post-2223396485023161542013-06-18T15:37:28.486+02:002013-06-18T15:37:28.486+02:00I say battle! Whoever did that thing to you needs ...I say battle! Whoever did that thing to you needs to learn that it was a big mistake. You can't let people mess with you because they are going to do it again. So show'em lady :)Krisztihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12039385909139153771noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-775779943618475111.post-5934508208100811562013-06-18T15:14:35.412+02:002013-06-18T15:14:35.412+02:00Hi Anette,
Well, it's hard to offer any advic...Hi Anette,<br /><br />Well, it's hard to offer any advice since I don't know what happened ... but I think you should just get up and fight! Don't let anyone bring you down ;).<br /><br />Much love from Portugal <3Babsy_NWhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14262509564125717266noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-775779943618475111.post-53831784104691225662013-06-18T13:52:58.252+02:002013-06-18T13:52:58.252+02:00it sounds like you are already battling it. if it ...it sounds like you are already battling it. if it is causing you so much stress then it is an issue that needs to be dealt with. with that in mind do "what ifs"..eg what if you didn't fight, what would happen? or what if you did fight but lose?<br />i'm going through a battle of my own. remember my emotional hell? well cause of that stress my doctor put me on esa (sick pay) and told me not to work. the company that assess people to make sure claims are genuine has said i'm fit for work. so they promptly stopped my benefits (good job i managed to save some money). but i've been progressively getting worse as i wait for treatment. so i'm appealing with the help of an advocate. i feel i haven't been listened too at all and because my illness is mental and not physical i find it discriminating...i don't need this added stress but i'm not going to let them walk over me. most of my life i've faced discrimination...as a baby cause my uncle kev was disabled, as a teen when i came out as a lesbian, late teens at work because i was bisexual (cause of that i stick to telling people i'm a lesbian) and through out my teens to this day discriminated on grounds of mental health...i remember a teacher who forced me to show my scars (from selfharming) and i didn't fight...that abuse of trust still hurts and to this day i still haven't spoken to her. even just saying hi in the street i just can't bring myself to do it. i'm scared it'll come out as anger..i don't want to be like that and hurt others how i've been hurt.<br />at the end of the day it is your choice and you have to live with the consequences of your actions.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09641880456171085448noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-775779943618475111.post-67853332013458182412013-06-18T13:19:25.148+02:002013-06-18T13:19:25.148+02:00Fight! You seems to be a person who fight for what...Fight! You seems to be a person who fight for whats seems fair to you so stay yourself and battle!<br />In my dream justice always win so lets hope you'll win too. No one deserve injustice.<br /><br />Lots of love to you my dear<br />Océanehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10347799818056706455noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-775779943618475111.post-23833831328449644462013-06-18T13:09:34.629+02:002013-06-18T13:09:34.629+02:00Well, people often face dilemmas and sometimes it’...Well, people often face dilemmas and sometimes it’s more difficult making the decision itself than facing its consequences. As I don’t know exactly what’s happened to you (something about family, career or school maybe?) I can’t tell you specific things but I have a golden rule, which is actually one of my favorite quotes. It says: Don’t make promises when you’re happy and don’t make decisions when you’re angry.<br /><br />As for me, I’m very sensitive when it comes to this topic. I always hated injustices because I saw everything objectively. And still I’d rather cry when something unfair is happening than when I feel hurt. I may take everything too objectively and that’s why people say I’m cold and I don’t have any empathy.<br /><br />When I have to decide between two options I often analyze them before I make a decision. I make lists in my head about the advantages and disadvantages they have. The bad thing about it is that I’m inclined to think too much about them. And I realize that I’m doing something totally else meanwhile I keep telling myself these advantages and disadvantages. And this affects my everyday life in a bad way.<br /><br />Most of the time one of the options means an easier and more comfortable way but bad influence in the long run. The other option means a hard way but with a good result in the long run. And here’s the dilemma. Should I take it easy and then suffer the consequences and hear the guilty conscience, which keeps telling me that I was too lazy and I didn’t do everything to reach my goals? Or should I work hard and suffer from choosing the difficult way to do my best? (As for me, it’s the first one I often choose.)<br /><br />Maybe because your problem is about injustice, it includes other people who were mean to you. Then I advise not to make your decision until you’re angry. You might regret it. I don’t think you’re like that but I tell you this because it’s happened to me many times. In such a case you should calm down yourself and think about the whole thing from farther away. Like you’d be an outsider or you’d watch it from the future. My dear teacher used to say: Make the decision while imaging you’re Jesus. Although I’m not religious this method can help a lot.<br /><br />I know when you’re angry you feel like killing the entire mankind but sometimes you have to tolerate others cruelty because then it’s better to everybody. When your mind is not clear you don’t take this into account. But there’s a limit to everything. If the same person hurts you again and again or if somebody is so cruel to you that nobody could tolerate you should take action. No one should treat others as cruel as sometimes they do.<br /><br />Now I feel like groping in the dark. I can’t tell you any useful things because I don’t know the details but you have to know that we support you whatever happened or happens. =)<br /><br />Good luck on making the decision,<br />DalmaDalmahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04851574434604986359noreply@blogger.com